Ghanaian singer and media personality Deborah Owusu-Bonsu, popularly known as Sister Derby, has stirred controversy after claiming that marriage is a form of prostitution.
In a video circulating online, the ‘Uncle Obama’ hitmaker made the bold assertion while commenting on the tradition of bride price in African marriages.
“Marriage is a form of prostitution,” she stated. “They pay for the pu$$y for life.”
Though the full context of the discussion remains unclear, the statement has sparked widespread outrage and heated debates across social media platforms. Critics say her remark is a blatant disregard for the sanctity of marriage and African customs.
“This is disrespect to your Creator Debby. May the Lord who instituted marriage forgive you,” one user commented under the viral clip.
Another wrote: “Asem ooo, so how can a beautiful lady think like this?”
Some users went as far as suggesting that her statement was a cry for help. “Mental health is real, folks!” one follower noted.
Despite the backlash, a section of the public has risen in her defence, insisting that she is entitled to her opinion.
“That’s her own perception about marriage. Leave her alone,” one person wrote, pointing out that Sister Derby has often challenged societal norms and expectations in her public expressions.
Sister Derby’s comment adds to her long list of unconventional takes on relationships, gender roles, and African traditions—topics that continue to polarize opinion in Ghana and beyond.
As the video continues to circulate, the singer is yet to issue a clarification or further explanation, leaving many to interpret her words at face value. For now, her statement remains one of the most talked-about soundbites on Ghanaian social media this week.
